Different types of people # 1 "the perfect one"

Sometimes I wonder how some people destroy other people's lives and make it a living hell in their own mediocre way. Right sis?!!! Come on! The world we live in is far from perfection but why some people born to be so Freakin' perfect?! So scary?!!.......... NOT!! I just felt bad for the little ones that they think they can play and bullied. Well, Guess what? For those all of you unkind-perfect-self centered bastards. You're just doing this because you have your own insecurities hiding under your skin and tried to just let people show that your far better from the others.

Go ahead ask your parents? Why were you like that? or maybe go back in time, check how you were brought in this world, Are your parents too good too be true? or maybe they were just like the ordinary parents who love their children so much, It's just that you've placed yourself in the box thinking that it would be better if you will just follow your own rules, in your own smart-ass world. I'm sorry. I'm not perfect. excuse me for my words. Ok here's the thing. You are human, unless you were from planet-X trying to pretend that you are one of us. GotchA! LOL!

This is just my opinion alright, I got bunch of semi-perfect, crazy, mute, lazy-asses, too much too handle, normal, abnormal friends as well. We all have that, right? These kind of people were all both acceptable and unacceptable in this world. And we still love them for that. Now those people who find this post like a bullet that went straight right into your head, or you just want to correct my poor English and make this article a "mistake-free" Then you are probably Sheldon of the big bang theory. But even Sheldon is loved by his wonderful geeky friends. Why? because everyone has a soft side. So yes there is still hope.
Hey you!! you got served!

I miss my baby

It's been two weeks since I last posted. My nanny quit last week and I have to work and take care of my kids more than everb. It was really tiring but It was all worth it. The only problem was that every night I have to leave them to my parent's house and then pick them up in the morning. It was kind of hard to do this everyday. But this is for my kids sake.

My husband decided to ask my mother-in-law to take care of our youngest, It was ok, I have nothing against it. We used to do that with my eldest before, when she was younger. It's just that this would be the first time for my youngest to be away with me for a very long time. So I felt very sad and I missed him already. Sometimes I wish I'm not working. or I will just stay at home. But that wouldn't be helpful to us financially. SO yes, I'll just pray to GOd that he would take care of us. I miss Eouri so much WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH~~!

I've been addicted to My lot

I can't believe myself, I registered for my lot 3 years ago and just left and didn't even try to use my account! Just this month I used it again because I heard that many people like it so much. Aside from you get an extra few cents with it,'you will enjoy the company of the people. My friends in my lot were really great and helpful to me. I was really surprised with the responses of the people who replied to my questions and topics.

For those people who are looking to get some extra cash and need some really good advices from different people around the world then My lot is definitely for you. You will really feel that you belong to this group. If you have questions and things that you want to know, Or if you just want to hear the opinion of others this is the place to be, If you want to earn more with my lot just start discussions, the earnings maybe slow at first but after sometime it increases. It really depends on you. I hope to see you there!

How to create an effective relationship

Relationships of all kinds are often perceived as very delicate things, that require extra effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also be something that can provide security and can also be long lasting despite many trials.

Building an effective and lasting relationships is a necessity for several reasons. For example in a group or organization, the well being of the people depends on how efficient and effective that group or organization works.

The group or organization is also dependent on how the members work well with the management.

An ineffective group or organization can really be very frustrating. An effective group or organization can also ask so much on their members, that sometimes the members would be having no life outside the walls of the area where they work or sacrifice the other aspects of their life just to meet deadlines. For an organization or group with this kind of scenario, relationships can be stressed or suffer from breakdown.

People or other entities who depend on these groups or organization also suffer.

Society is defined as a web of relationships, which requires all parties to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is good, where cooperation and respect are manifested, can make society work better. In this way each member works for the good of the whole and towards achieving a common goal. This can only be attained with effective and efficient relationships.

Understanding the other parties' feeling and position creates an effective and efficient relationship. The easiest method to understand what is important to another party is to ask them what they want and listen to what they have to say. When the other party realizes this, they would feel the importance given to them

Effective and efficient relationships require parties to openly express their feelings and positions on all matters pertinent on the relationship. Assuming that the other party understands our needs and give us when we need it without asking for it is not a good practice.

Respect is the key to relationship. In order to create a more effective relationship, parties should treat each other with respect. We can show respect just by listening to the other party and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to other parties by confirming that they are doing everything they can.

The opposite of respect is quick forming of judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudice.

Respect is the very foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself and respecting others.

Another key area in forming an effective relationship is to tackle differences of the other party directly. Differences between parties or people are quite interesting. For example in a conversation where each party listens to the other party, you may observe that each is having two different perspectives.

Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.

This can be done when at least one party acknowledges that the relationship is important. That party would then exert more time, effort and energy to understand the other party's needs and deal with it to get it out of the way. Should they fail, it is comforting for that party to know that they tried.

Effectively listening and no pre-judging. This is important if parties are to understand each other.

Informal discussions are conducive for parties. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. They also feel more relaxed making them think more clearly.

Developing an atmosphere where the other party can express their feelings when they need to.

When parties fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.

Parties should be aware that certain things exist naturally but should be controlled in any dealings in any relationship. Human nature is one. Some of these things found in a relationship also include a history of stereotyping or mistrust, blaming the other person or party for a strained relationship, excluding the other party's feelings when focusing on a task, no clear and defined objectives, roles and expectations of each party in a relationship is also unclear.

Relationships are important to anyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve the relationship. As they say 'No man is an Island'.

Top 5 Most Beautiful people in the world......for me

There are so many beautiful faces nowadays, If you watch TV, Movies, fashion show almost all TV personalities really has their own beauty. This good looks are obviously inherited from their parents, a mix race would definitely result into one beautiful person. I really don't care if they have underwent any plastic surgery, what matters is that it look so natural. Now it is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. but hey i just admire these people. and hope i'm one of them LOL! ok so i chose 5 of the most attractive person in the world for me at this point, Now, this is absolutely , purely, my own opinion. If you don't like them well, That's your opinion. But i guess there's still a lot out there that i haven't seen so i guess these people are the most beautiful people for me for just this month. I'll try to change it monthly. LOL! so many good-looking men and women on the list. and i just can't write about them in just one post. Ok so enough with the talk. Here's the list.


#5 Wu zun
- this guy is really telegenic, i know he is photogenic but i really think he is more of a telegenic-guy. don't be fooled with his small framed face, it looks like he has a very thin body frame as but no, he has well-built body. just right, not too big that it's not proportion to his face, vis a Brunei-born actor, singer, a former model, and gym instructor. He is the only non-Taiwanese born member of the boy band Fahrenheit, and is known for his roles in the Taiwanese idol dramas





# 4 Zhao Wei
- She is one of those chinese actress that you will take a second look, why? first, mainly of her big bright beautiful eyes, that outsand most of the chinese actresses nowadays. The first time i saw her, i just knew she really has a beautiful face. Oh yes she's a singer too.


#3 Orlando Bloom
- Everytime i see his face on TV it just makes me want to see him more. I admire his face that it so mysterious. It looks like a combination of a bit angelic and a little devilish too, something in between.Orlando Bloom was born in Canterbury, Kent, England. His mother, Sonia Constance Josephine (née Copeland), was born in the British section of Kolkata, India,


#2 Maegan Fox
- A very good example of an exotic beauty. The eyes that launched a thousand decagons and ottobots. i don't know but just look at her, and tell me. isn't that a beauty? This is one of her picture before she did something with her lips.Fox is of Irish, French and Native American ancestry. Fox grew up in nearby Rockwood, Tennessee and she began her training in drama and dance at age five, in Kingston, Tennessee.

#1 Angelina Jolie
- i really don't know where am i going to start, She is just so perfect. Her body,eyes, lips, husband LOL! everything. ALthough she has a beautiful body. She's still not perfect, I don't like her back. I forgot that movie...oh nevermind. Well. who cares about her back her front is absolutely stunning.


There are still a lot of beautiful faces out there waiting to be discovered, I just need to post for them in the next few months, but for the mean time they are my top 5. thanks for reading!

Cosmetic surgery are not only for stars.

I have been a big fan of many international drama series, US. Japanese, Koreans, Taiwanese and all that. I've noticed that most of these actors and actresses has gone through a facial surgery or they probably did something with their faces and their bodies, not all looks natural but most of them were really nicely done. Now, in real life not only famous people wanted to look good and be confident with themselves, even the normal people like us. People has different reasons why they want a Cosmetic Surgery .

Some reasons has got to do something with boosting their confidence, maybe they think that they are not pretty enough to land a job, maybe they think their faces and their bodies shows their age, and wanted to look younger and even more beautiful as they aged. Now. what ever reason you have, all it takes is just a click of a mouse to check on this site that i found call MYA. Thy got wide very famous celebs that has been through a surgery and was a success, if you have any inquiries you could check their site. at www.MYA.co.uk. All questions has answers. So what are you waiting for. If you have been thinking all your life to visit a surgeon, Why not check this site to get to know more of those information, anyway its a free consultation so why not grab the chance. and when your ready, MYA is waiting for you.

I suck at shell game!!

Oh this is so addictive!

you got to try it and you will definitely fall for it. No wonder gamblers lose a lot of money in such simple game like this LOL! try it! no money needed lol! just for fun




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Enjoy!

Pretty scary month of June!

OMG! it's been a long time since i last posted something!!! I have been busy and my kids are so handful, The school just started and my daughter was so excited but, i guess most schools are not excited to open for this school year, because of the A( H1N1) virus spreading so fast.

I'm not really scared at first but it was when the number of people who was positive in this flu increases rapidly, that was the point that I'm a bit afraid to bring my family somewhere, like a mall or something, a lot of schools canceled their classes for the whole month of June and will resume by July, Almost all of the Universities in the metro are closed temporarily but my daughter's school is still on going. Because i guess it's not a very big school. But i hope if the virus still spreads continuously i hope they'll let the kids just stay at home for a while.

Anyhow, in these past few days. my daughter has been accompanying my brother and his wife to be. They have been busy preparing things for their wedding next year, I'm actually very excited for them, because i will be their wedding singer and the make-up artist at the same time, So cool! anyways i had to go back to work

The Powers of a Positive Attitude

I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?

Now let's say you are walking down the street with these thoughts. Do you think anyone who would meet you would be able to tell you what’s on your mind?

The answer to number one is up to you. But, the answer number two can be pretty generic. Although people will not be able to tell you exactly what you think, they will more or less have an idea of how you are feeling.

Here's another question. When you enter a party filled with friends, do they all fall silent as if something terrible had happened? Or does everybody there perk up as if waiting for something exciting to happen?

You know what? The answer to all these depends on your frame of mind.

Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. The attitude you carry reflects on your appearance, too – unless, of course, you are a great actor.

And it doesn't end there. Your attitude can also affect people around you.

The type of attitude you carry depends on you. It can be either positive or negative.

Positive thoughts have a filling effect. They are admittedly invigorating. Plus, the people around the person carrying positive thoughts are usually energized by this type of attitude.

Negative thoughts on the other hand have a sapping effect on other people. Aside from making you look gloomy and sad, negative thoughts can turn a festive gathering into a funeral wake.

A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude.

We can also define attitude as the way of looking at the world. If you choose to focus on the negative things in the world, more or less you have a negative attitude brewing up. However, if you choose to focus on the positive things, you are more likely carry a positive attitude.

You have much to gain from a very positive attitude. For one, studies have shown that a positive attitude promotes better health. Those with this kind of attitude also have more friends. projecting a positive attitude also helps one to handle stress and problems better than those who have a negative attitude.

A positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. If you will love the way you are and are satisfied, confident, and self-assured, you also make others are around feel the same way.

A negative attitude, on the other hand, has, of course, an opposite effect. So, carrying a negative attitude has a twofold drawback. You feel bad about yourself, and you make others feel the same way.

If you want to have a positive attitude, you have to feature healthy thoughts. This is probably very hard to do nowadays since, all around us, the media feeds us nothing but negative thoughts. A study shows that for every 14 things a parent says to his or her child, only one is positive. This is truly a saddening thought.

If you want a healthier outlook in life, you need to think happy thoughts, and you have to hear positive things as well. So, what can you do? Well, for starters, you could see a funny movie, you could play with children, spend some time telling jokes with friends. All these activities fill you with positive stimuli, which in turn promotes positive attitude.

Although it is impossible to keep ourselves from the negative things around us, you can still carry a positive attitude by focusing on the good things, the positive things in life.

And this positive attitude you now carry can be of benefit to other people. Sometimes when other people feel down, the thing people mostly do is try to give them advice. But sometimes, all they need is somebody to sit by them, and listen to them. If you have a positive attitude you may be able to cheer them up without even having to say anything.

If positive attitude is really great, why do people choose to adopt a negative attitude instead? One who carries a negative attitude may be actually sending a signal for attention. Before you get me wrong, feeling sad, angry, or gloomy is not wrong itself. But dwelling on these thoughts for far too long is not healthy either. There is a time to mourn.

As always, if you are beset by troubles, even in your darkest hour, focus on the good things in life, you will always have hope. Problems become something you can overcome.

You do not have much to lose by adopting a healthy, positive attitude. Studies show that such an attitude actually retards aging, makes you healthier, helps you develop a better stress coping mechanism, and has a very positive effect on all the people you meet every day. So, what's not to like about a positive attitude? Adopt one today.

Do you cry in front of your kids?

Today is one of the days that i really don't like, Today i kind of felt pretty sad about certain things that was happening in the past few weeks, and i can't tell my loved ones about it. I know that every once in a while they read my blog, so sorry sister and brothers, I'm not going into details.

I always show to my family how happy i am for all the blessings that God has given me and My family. Which is very true I'm so blessed. But there are people that are trying to pull me down and make my days so bad. I'm always trying my very best to help my family, my kids and my husband,and i know that I'm not perfect. but i never stop trying to work hard and even harder than i thought. I usually get affected or be emotional by negative things that people say but i never show it. I just keep it to myself and then i know it will pass and then i forget about it. but there are just people who never get's tired to bring me down.

The hardest part? is i don't want my kids to see me crying, I don't want them to see that I'm weak too. It's not always that i can smile with grace.I'm human too. I just hope this feeling subside very very soon,

Beauty products that are safe for mommy and baby.

When i was pregnant just a year ago, One of my major problems was knowing that all the products I use was safe for my baby that was still of course in my tummy. I heard that a lot of pregnant women had birth problems and sometimes their babies has birth defects due to wrong medication, they were exposed to different chemicals that they weren't had any idea that they were exposed into it.

And as a pregnant mom I've always wanted to stay beautiful, but I have doubts with some cosmetics and other beauty products. I was one of the people who aren't very sure how safe those beauty products are to me and to my baby. Especially when I heard that a lot of beauty products has lead content. So scary. But now there are beauty products that not only will help you to look good, make you beautiful but it is also safe to all the mommies and the babies in their tummies.

I really hope that i saw this before. It's called beautydemaman.com
all of the products from that company are all made especially for pregnant women who are afraid to use any cremes or facial products because of the harsh chemicals that are found in some popular brands. Beaute de Maman actually helps you to look good and feel good without worrying about your baby's health. they got products such as face and body cream and stretch mark cream.

So for all the expectant mommies out there, what are you waiting for? order now you will be glad you did.

Loving the married life?

Having a married life is fun and challenging at times, having kids is such a blessing. We often talk, fight, cry, laugh and love with our husbands and wives. WE always make sure that we only give the best for our children and serving and loving the only one person who made our life beautiful and worth living.But there were times that it's not always going the way we planned it. There are trials that test our relationship with our better half. I heard so many relationships that won't lasts a year or two or sometimes even months, why? Because they are lacking the love and communication, and oh patience too.

In married life we need to always give and take. It's not always you or her/him. It's about "us" being one being together, again, united as one person. If you think that you have problems, you can always seek for help and our ask for advices from other older couples. You can even join groups or even try to visit some Married Chat Room, Having someone to talk too, sharing experiences, giving and accepting ideas and opinions can actually help ease the pain if you have problems, and help you get some answers if you do have some questions. You can try to visit marriedchatcity.com

This site offers a 100% free registration, you can always have free chat with other married couples, share stories, asked questions anything under the sun. We can always find a friend in everyone.

Perfect pair of glasses.

Good thing i was reading the news! I was always planning to have an eye check up or visit an optometrist, but I am very scared that I'll spend a lot and end up with an ugly frame that was suggested. I hardly say no to almost any opportunities, and sometimes go home disappointed. I've read about the article "Seeing Straight Without Breaking the Bank" in NY Times just last week. They gave such helpful ideas to anyone who has doubts of visiting an optometrist and people who have problems financially. Honestly, I really thought that if I'll get an eye examination, I would go straight to purchasing what was their prescription right there and there.My mistake.

They recommend a lot of good eye frame shops over the Internet but I was very interested on checking out eyeglasses from zennioptical.com. I was very excited and look what i found?!








This nice-looking frame(with argyle prints) cost only $15.95 and there's a lot more, price range starts from $8. They have wide range of frames that are all in very reasonable prices and believe me they got exactly what you need.

they have a lot of good-looking frames to choose from without having to spend a lot. Sometimes things are meant to be read, thanks to that article I've found about this great site.

Itchy pox.

My daughter got chicken pox, and i was so worried that she might not handle the pain well. What I meant is that my daughter's patience is really not that long. Most of us already been in this situation maybe when we were younger, and i don't know how each one handled it. I had to bring her to my mom's house, because I'm afraid that my baby boy is next in line. He is still too young to have Chicken pox.

After few days, my daughter would complain about hoe itchy it was, painful and how her headache makes her vomit. She is just 5 years old so I know it would be hard for her and it would be harder for my 10-month old that's why i had to separate them. Although this is really not an easy situation i think all mommies are going through this. I guess it's just my turn.

How smart is your right foot?

I was hoping to find one of my old emails from a friend of mine, It was so important that i have to check all her emails to me, guess what i found? well, Just want to share it to everyone!


Just try this. It is from an
orthopedic surgeon............

This will boggle your mind and you
will keep trying over and over again to see if
you can outsmart your foot, but you
can't. It's preprogrammed in your brain!
1. WITHOUT anyone watching you (they
will think you are GOOFY......) and while
sitting where you are at your desk
in front of your computer, lift your right foot
off the floor and make clockwise
circles.

2. Now, while doing this, draw the
number "6" in the air with you right hand.
Your foot will change direction.

I told you so!!!


You and I both know how stupid it
is, but before the day is done you are
going to try it again, if you've not
already done so ! ! !

maybe after a lot of practice you can do this... or not!

Best site for boob job.

I know that all of us will soon get older. Everyone would like to grow old gracefully right? But why look old when you can slow down the process of aging. You can do it in so many ways. Such as losing weight, taking care of your skin, having a splendid hair style and of course cosmetic surgeries.

If you want to achieve best results in cosmetic surgeries, or if you want to undergo a breast augmentation surgery but still afraid of falling to an inexperienced surgeon? Then I definitely suggest that you should visit MYA (Make Yourself Amazing). They have been in the business for so many years and they've been trusted by so many people around the globe. If you want a skilled surgeon to do your boob job, then MYA is the answer. Their procedures and services have been proven to be highly satisfactory by many patients. You could check their stories through the site too.

If you are afraid to ask, or too shy to visit their clinic you could easily just check out their site and fill out their online form to ask a question. And another way is to simply click "ask an expert". I will give you one more reason why MYA is worth your time. They offer affordable and reasonable packages for all women who needs their help.

A week to get over.

This is really a bad week for me. But I'm trying to look at the brighter side of everything.

We just arrived from the hospital today. My son is sick, he was diagnosed with Pneumonia. I thought it was dengue but after they conducted several tests, they found out that it was Pneumonia. It was really hard for me to see my 9-month old son, suffering.

He coughed like an old man. So bad. It was so difficult for him to breathe. He cried and cried the whole day, and there's nothing i can do but wait for the medicine to work. I carried him the whole time, danced and sang for him too. I did everything.

Every time a nurse passes by, he always started crying. Maybe he was thinking it's "injection time!" He didn't sleep so well, so did I and my hubby. He's not yet well up to now. We still need to go back to the hospital for his daily shots. I am praying every night for him to get well fast.

Have a great weekend everyone!

I'm going to visit my mother in law tomorrow. I still don't know what to bring her. She's diabetic so there are foods that I like to give but i can't. She has heart problems too, so many foods to avoid.

I would like to rush to the nearest mall tomorrow and buy her a dress, but i don't know her size now. My sister i law told me that she lost a lot of weight.

I only have few hours to think. (sigh).. Have a great weekend everyone!

The Last Song Syndrome

I hate L.S.S. whenever it happened to me in unexpected places and situations. L.S.S. stands for Last Song Syndrome. It simply means to listen to music before going out of the house, and having the last song you hear before leaving stick in your head all through your journey, and beyond. Is usually accompanied by subconscious humming. This syndrome is particularly dangerous when the song happens to be the most pathetic, crappy, albeit catchy song ever. (from urban dictionary)

Yesterday morning, My daughter started singing this song from a TV commercial. And it was a catchy but very lousy type of song. She started singing it when she saw the ad on TV and she sang along. The Ad was already finished but she kept singing the song.

And what happened next? I started singing too, And i kept singing the whole morning. And the most embarrassing happened when i went to the bank, and while waiting for my turn i started singing it. And because the TV ad was popular. A lot of people were familiar to that song. And to my stupidity i even sang at least two lines. Oh My! I heard people were laughing at my back. and The bank tellers too. So embarrassing!

So after what happened, I started to sing a nice song in my head. To remove the unwanted one. I never thought of singing a new song earlier because i was just so busy. Oh what a day!

Btw, That's my daughter when she was 2.

Lemonade award

I got this really cool award from Cherryfe!

The Rules of this award:

1. Put the logo on your blog or post.
2. Nominate at least 10 blogs which show great Attitude and/or Gratitude!
3. Be sure to link to your nominees within your post.
4. Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.
5. Share the love and link to this post and to the person from whom you received your award.

I nominate the following blogs. You gotta check out their blogs. They got their own style and uniqueness, that's why they're here:

Robin of Healthy Living
Carnation of Sweet carnation
Jody of JodyDonnely.com
Leo of Healthy tips for a healthy lifestyle
Dextro of Towards living a healthier life
Heidi of health Nut Wannabe Mom
Erin of The Mom Buzz
Jennifer of Crazy, Magic and sometimes hectic beautiful life
Abhay of Life in full Speed
Akilesh of Scribble, Scrabble, Stroo...